Thank you for your reply. I have to agree with Pat that if you are not ready, your not ready and if a man really wanted to be with you, he would maybe not agree with you but at least understand.
If you by any means question your relationship (such as you saying that he is too possessive), this is a red flag you are providing yourself that says, maybe this is not the right one for you. If he doesn't want you to date other men, don't worry, he leaves to go to France, right? He will be gone soon. Are you in fear of your life with him?
The things that you will miss about him (such as helping you when you need him) is easily replaced by another man. There is nothing that you are saying that is irreplaceable. Your virginity, however, is irreplaceable. What's the rush? Wouldn't you want to know that the person you give such a precious gift to will be the one you are with forever?
Life is very short, hun and you are still young. You have plenty of time to make sure this is the right thing (in your mind to do). So take the time to make sure, no pressure from anyone else. You will know and not question it!
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your reply. I have to agree with Pat that if you are not ready, your not ready and if a man really wanted to be with you, he would maybe not agree with you but at least understand.
If you by any means question your relationship (such as you saying that he is too possessive), this is a red flag you are providing yourself that says, maybe this is not the right one for you. If he doesn't want you to date other men, don't worry, he leaves to go to France, right? He will be gone soon. Are you in fear of your life with him?
The things that you will miss about him (such as helping you when you need him) is easily replaced by another man. There is nothing that you are saying that is irreplaceable. Your virginity, however, is irreplaceable. What's the rush? Wouldn't you want to know that the person you give such a precious gift to will be the one you are with forever?
Life is very short, hun and you are still young. You have plenty of time to make sure this is the right thing (in your mind to do). So take the time to make sure, no pressure from anyone else. You will know and not question it!
June 26, 2010 - 7:29amThis Comment
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