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Angaroo,

Sure, it's possible that you are too sensitive. When we are in our first real relationship, we often feel that way. BUT I do think that you have some cause for worry, due to the fact that he lied to you about the nude photos and the text about the hot models site. Those instances may be absolutely innocent, but on the other hand, they may be symptoms of a larger issue between the two of you.

You mention "all the weird things that were going on." Were there more?

If you talk to him about them now, you want to be careful when you bring them up. Do it in the middle of a normal conversation, like a Saturday lunch at a little sandwich shop or something. Ask it quietly, after saying "Can I ask you about something that's been bothering me for a while?" and don't accuse. Just say what happened, and see what he says. He may be angry, and defensive -- but listen to what he says. Or he may be fine talking about it, and you two could get this cleared up one way or the other.

But I'm a little confused. You say that you don't feel the same way about him, and that you're not sure you could marry him after all this, yet you don't want to end the relationship. Do you feel more strongly one way or the other?

June 23, 2010 - 10:14am

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