I also know what it is like to lose a child. But mine was a little different for I missed carried a child if you can call it that. But the same grief comes upon you just the same. I missed carried in 2003 and the result of the ultrasound was not good. It showed that the amniotic sac was full of blood. I was 6 weeks pregnant I also ruptured my falopian tub and my gallblader and was bleeding very heavily from the front and the rear end. I was in a bad way. I was asked out of ten how strong was the pain I rated to 100 that is how bad it felt. Soon after telling the docotors that when I fell unconcious. And the doctors were rushing to stablise me, once the drip was in place I felt much better. Then I was wheeled upstairs for a curet. Two days after that I was allowed to go home.