I agree that domestic violence may have a blind eye at times. I had to get a protection order against an ex-boyfriend once and I have to admit the legal system was very helpful. I think the largest problem with domestic violence is that the individuals in the situation keep it a secret so the people on the outside have no idea what is going on behind closed doors.
The hardest thing I ever had to do was go in front of a judge and ask for help but I would NEVER take my decision back to finally stop the abuse whether it is physical or emotional. Getting help when in the situation is crucial. You must tell someone that you are in fear and let the legal and support groups take care of the rest.
I think this is a great post and please keep us posted on your friend. My heart goes out to her.
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I agree that domestic violence may have a blind eye at times. I had to get a protection order against an ex-boyfriend once and I have to admit the legal system was very helpful. I think the largest problem with domestic violence is that the individuals in the situation keep it a secret so the people on the outside have no idea what is going on behind closed doors.
The hardest thing I ever had to do was go in front of a judge and ask for help but I would NEVER take my decision back to finally stop the abuse whether it is physical or emotional. Getting help when in the situation is crucial. You must tell someone that you are in fear and let the legal and support groups take care of the rest.
I think this is a great post and please keep us posted on your friend. My heart goes out to her.
June 5, 2010 - 9:23amThis Comment
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