I have to say when I first opened up your post I was not prepared to read what I just read. I am very sorry that he seems disinterested in sex but in all honesty-- you have way bigger fish to fry.
Have you considered getting help to get out of your relationship? Or has this never crossed your mind considering you are being verbally abused by HIS father and physically abused by him?
Let me clarify what you just posted-- you are with a guy who doesn't have sex with you, hits you when he is drunk, and possibly cheats on you (considering his past history). Is there something good about him that keeps you with him? Or is it fear?
Please write back-- there is help out there and I strongly feel like you deserve it. Yes, many people are good when sober and it could only be nasty when they're drunk but being drunk doesn't justify hurting someone to the point of almost breaking their wrists. Drinking impairs the brain and thought process severely and because of this, I am in fear for YOUR life. If you reconsider getting help and out of this hazardous relationship, please call the abuse helpline at: 1800.621.HOPE(4673)
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Adtr26,
I have to say when I first opened up your post I was not prepared to read what I just read. I am very sorry that he seems disinterested in sex but in all honesty-- you have way bigger fish to fry.
Have you considered getting help to get out of your relationship? Or has this never crossed your mind considering you are being verbally abused by HIS father and physically abused by him?
Let me clarify what you just posted-- you are with a guy who doesn't have sex with you, hits you when he is drunk, and possibly cheats on you (considering his past history). Is there something good about him that keeps you with him? Or is it fear?
Please write back-- there is help out there and I strongly feel like you deserve it. Yes, many people are good when sober and it could only be nasty when they're drunk but being drunk doesn't justify hurting someone to the point of almost breaking their wrists. Drinking impairs the brain and thought process severely and because of this, I am in fear for YOUR life. If you reconsider getting help and out of this hazardous relationship, please call the abuse helpline at: 1800.621.HOPE(4673)
February 24, 2010 - 6:37amThis Comment
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