I have the same problem. My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year and have went from having sex atleast once a day to maybe once every other week for 3 or 4 minutes if im lucky. 99% of the time if i can manage to beg enough to get him to have sex with me, he either gets it over with as fast as possible or it goes limp as soon as he has to touch me. Im attractive and thin and i know what im doing i cant understand why hes so uninterested in me anymore. Hes perfect aside from that; he helps me with everything, spends all his time with me, pretty much anything i could ask for in a relationship. But he makes me feel like a roomate and not a girlfriend. Ive told him this a million times but he just tells me that sex shouldnt be so important to me. I dont really enjoy having sex with him anyway, but the fact that he makes me feel unnatractive and unloved is the worst part. I know hes interested in sex because he watches porn all the time but he doesnt care if i send him sexy pictures. He wants to have a baby and get married in august when im done with school but i dont think i can handle doing that with him if he wont even try to help himself fix this huge problem.
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I have the same problem. My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year and have went from having sex atleast once a day to maybe once every other week for 3 or 4 minutes if im lucky. 99% of the time if i can manage to beg enough to get him to have sex with me, he either gets it over with as fast as possible or it goes limp as soon as he has to touch me. Im attractive and thin and i know what im doing i cant understand why hes so uninterested in me anymore. Hes perfect aside from that; he helps me with everything, spends all his time with me, pretty much anything i could ask for in a relationship. But he makes me feel like a roomate and not a girlfriend. Ive told him this a million times but he just tells me that sex shouldnt be so important to me. I dont really enjoy having sex with him anyway, but the fact that he makes me feel unnatractive and unloved is the worst part. I know hes interested in sex because he watches porn all the time but he doesnt care if i send him sexy pictures. He wants to have a baby and get married in august when im done with school but i dont think i can handle doing that with him if he wont even try to help himself fix this huge problem.
November 9, 2014 - 7:57pmThis Comment
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