A NT person tells a NT person that what they did or said was hurtful and both NT people ponder the situation feel badly about what was said and done and try to make things better for each other and themselves. A NT tells an Aspie that what they did or said was hurful and the Aspie says "you shouldn't feel that way". The Aspie's next thoughts are about her latest obsession or arcane useless hobby. The NT leaves feeling worse and ponders the situation. Regardless of how the NT feels, murder is not an option and it is too late for castration. The Aspie never tells a NT that what they did or said was hurtful because the Aspie doesn't notice that anyone else is in the room. Thanksgiving for me was a time to practice inhibition of impulses. I should really have carved the turkey to put those impulses to good use. It was a 4-5 hour mantra of me me me me me England England When I went ot England England England. When I went to England... when I went to Scotland...last time i was in England.....Wine in her made it even worse and there was not enough booze in the entire house to make it ok for me or anyone else. She could not be shut up! Most people just sat there amused by my response and amazed by her absolute lack of insight about the perceptions and feelings of others. 2 grandchildren and she could not bother to ask how either was. I'm guessing this is one women who probably had a pretty severe case of autism as a child but she had a nurturing mother and an Aspie father so at least the temperature in the home wasn't absolutely frigid. How do these people get warm enough to have sex? Must be good training for living in Alaska! This women would not know about dishing anything out-she would not notice. She must be spinning in her head.
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A NT person tells a NT person that what they did or said was hurtful and both NT people ponder the situation feel badly about what was said and done and try to make things better for each other and themselves. A NT tells an Aspie that what they did or said was hurful and the Aspie says "you shouldn't feel that way". The Aspie's next thoughts are about her latest obsession or arcane useless hobby. The NT leaves feeling worse and ponders the situation. Regardless of how the NT feels, murder is not an option and it is too late for castration. The Aspie never tells a NT that what they did or said was hurtful because the Aspie doesn't notice that anyone else is in the room. Thanksgiving for me was a time to practice inhibition of impulses. I should really have carved the turkey to put those impulses to good use. It was a 4-5 hour mantra of me me me me me England England When I went ot England England England. When I went to England... when I went to Scotland...last time i was in England.....Wine in her made it even worse and there was not enough booze in the entire house to make it ok for me or anyone else. She could not be shut up! Most people just sat there amused by my response and amazed by her absolute lack of insight about the perceptions and feelings of others. 2 grandchildren and she could not bother to ask how either was. I'm guessing this is one women who probably had a pretty severe case of autism as a child but she had a nurturing mother and an Aspie father so at least the temperature in the home wasn't absolutely frigid. How do these people get warm enough to have sex? Must be good training for living in Alaska! This women would not know about dishing anything out-she would not notice. She must be spinning in her head.
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