You sound like me rosa. I am so easy going and find that when i go out to eat, the pushy people get service quicker than the nice ones. When we go out to dinner and a server picks up that you are not in a rush, they seem to take their time. I do believe that being a nice person always wins in the end and the confrontational people might get there way at first but not in the long run.
Dr. Jennifer Lagrotte, DMFT