Hi, Anon, and welcome to EmpowHer. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.
Women have babies all the time, and they are not "ruined." That's an excuse, and a mean one, that your boyfriend is using. It sounds like he knows exactly what buttons to push to hurt you, and like Alison said, that's not healthy.
So you and the baby live with a roommate who can't be trusted? Is that the situation? Do you feel that you and the baby are safe?
Is your boyfriend the baby's father? If so, does he show concern and love for the baby?
Please don't be embarrassed. I'm glad you wrote and asked this question. Do you feel you have any alternatives to live in another place?
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Hi, Anon, and welcome to EmpowHer. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.
Women have babies all the time, and they are not "ruined." That's an excuse, and a mean one, that your boyfriend is using. It sounds like he knows exactly what buttons to push to hurt you, and like Alison said, that's not healthy.
So you and the baby live with a roommate who can't be trusted? Is that the situation? Do you feel that you and the baby are safe?
Is your boyfriend the baby's father? If so, does he show concern and love for the baby?
Please don't be embarrassed. I'm glad you wrote and asked this question. Do you feel you have any alternatives to live in another place?
September 28, 2009 - 9:12amThis Comment
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