actually you can still have your hymen fully in so you still could be a virgin.
BUT at 14, i know you think are old enough but even your body is not old enough to give birth safely. I hope you take time to read about giving birth at such a young age and if you are not using condom..well risk for life at really at risk.
I mean if you are honest with yourself is it worth it to get HIV and possibly Aids ..no matter which one and have to take cocktail of drugs daily. Plus what about STD's that you might not have signs and they can destroy your chance of every having child.
My younger sister has sex about your age and i am positive that it was one of things that has caused her to have low self esteem as well as other behavioral issues....enough were she has been in and out of mental wards for much of her adult life.
I waited till i was adult and knew the guy was in love with me. He did not pressure me at all. In fact he was ready to wait longer or as long as i needed. So when it did happen it was a very happy positive experience.
Bottom line there is no way to have sex safely with out using condom. He can get them at health dept or Planned Parent hood( think on this one) or he can go buy one....he can at least do that for you...you should also use a spermicide to make it safer in case condom breaks or he does not put it on right away.
Just with all STD out there...having sex with out a condom is like playing Russian Roulette with your body and life.
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actually you can still have your hymen fully in so you still could be a virgin.
March 9, 2013 - 11:46pmBUT at 14, i know you think are old enough but even your body is not old enough to give birth safely. I hope you take time to read about giving birth at such a young age and if you are not using condom..well risk for life at really at risk.
I mean if you are honest with yourself is it worth it to get HIV and possibly Aids ..no matter which one and have to take cocktail of drugs daily. Plus what about STD's that you might not have signs and they can destroy your chance of every having child.
My younger sister has sex about your age and i am positive that it was one of things that has caused her to have low self esteem as well as other behavioral issues....enough were she has been in and out of mental wards for much of her adult life.
I waited till i was adult and knew the guy was in love with me. He did not pressure me at all. In fact he was ready to wait longer or as long as i needed. So when it did happen it was a very happy positive experience.
Bottom line there is no way to have sex safely with out using condom. He can get them at health dept or Planned Parent hood( think on this one) or he can go buy one....he can at least do that for you...you should also use a spermicide to make it safer in case condom breaks or he does not put it on right away.
Just with all STD out there...having sex with out a condom is like playing Russian Roulette with your body and life.
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