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Anonymous (reply to Christine Jeffries)

Hello Christine and knowledgeable commenters on this subject,
As seen from your previous comments you seem very knowledgeable in this area of subject. I have a few question to ask you, I think I know the answers but I would like to be sure please.
I had just ended my menstrual cycle and my boyfriend came over the next day. We started to become quite sexually excited and I began to release lots of vaginal fluid. Naturally I understand my body was preparing for sexual intercourse. I removed my underwear and he began to touch my vagina with his hand, which produced A LOT more of my vaginal fluid. Myself or partner do not wish to have sex yet, however we wished to try things in the bedroom. I was laying in the missionary position and he climbed on top of me with his underpants on. He then began to put his erect penis in my vagina slightly about 2 to 3cm I assume, with his underpants still on. He did not ejaculate at all. He and I are sure of this. However, once I told him to stop after about 10 seconds of in and out motions, we then went into the bathroom together to wash our hands and I saw a wet patch on the outer of his underpants, I know this was from my vaginal fluids however when I felt his penis I think he may have had some 'pre-cum' or 'pre-ejaculatory' fluid on the tip of his penis. I asked him did he notice it in the bedroom, or did it just come out when we were in the bathroom. He wasn't 100% sure. So now it brings me to the predicament, of pregnancy. Could I be pregnant? If for some case some 'pre-cum' fluid has been released could it have seeped through his underwear mixed with mine and entered my vagina up to my uterus, thus resulting in pregnancy? Or can't the sperm find it's way through underwear, keeping in mind mine was off?
It has been 8 days since this event has happened. I have an irregular period still, I think. My next period is due on the twelfth day after this event. So in 4 days after this post. I really hope I am not pregnant and I know for any reason in the future if we were to do ANYTHING like this with each other again we would put protection on or take some precaution even though we do not wish to have sexual intercourse. I just really need some more information on these matters. Thank you so much for your assistance to all of us women and men and I hope to hear from you soon. :) as you can probably tell, I am a bit of a worry wart but I am stressing at the moment and I know I shouldn't or else my period will come even later. But I just need some clarification, to know what I will have to do or know for the future. Thankyou Christine and knowledgeable commenters.

December 7, 2011 - 1:26am

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