Debbie, Honey you are so very very normal feeling the pain, the family being at odds...And Michelle has hit it on the head YOUR MOTHER IS STILL WITH YOU! I lost my dear Mother in 1971, I was not yet 30, then I lost my Father in 1988, just after my 48th birthday. Each time my Sister and I had a problem, I've always been there (here in Phoenix), she has lived away and was not here! Each time I have felt the sadness but then I did what I had to do, be strong and do the next step...then months later I would have my breakdown, tears that just wouldn't stop...Time goes by and the sweet dreams come, memories, smells, little things to remind me of my dear parent, or the feeling that one of them is just here....odd and wonderful all at the same time! We are human, grieve is necessary and no one does it the same.
I'm so Thankful that you found EmpowHER and reached out...by sharing YOU are helping someone and maybe WE can help you to know that YOU ARE PERFECT and no matter what you were lucky and blessed because YOU had that wonderful Mother and were there when she needed you most and your courage and strength now is a gift that YOU can share with YOUR SISTERS and others, as well as the tears which are the crystals of your precious soul bathing you!
Debbie, may each minute, hour and day bring YOU something that will be of comfort.
Asking for help is a very powerful step and you have taken it, other steps follow. Know that YOU have done just what YOUR MOTHER raised YOU to do....she gave you courage and strength and you are sharing with others from the EmpowHER community to YOUR SISTERS to all those who share your Mother's love and memories...
Feel the many vitual HUGS that are being sent to YOU and all the BUTTERFLY KISSES...
Respectfully, Princeline
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Debbie, Honey you are so very very normal feeling the pain, the family being at odds...And Michelle has hit it on the head YOUR MOTHER IS STILL WITH YOU! I lost my dear Mother in 1971, I was not yet 30, then I lost my Father in 1988, just after my 48th birthday. Each time my Sister and I had a problem, I've always been there (here in Phoenix), she has lived away and was not here! Each time I have felt the sadness but then I did what I had to do, be strong and do the next step...then months later I would have my breakdown, tears that just wouldn't stop...Time goes by and the sweet dreams come, memories, smells, little things to remind me of my dear parent, or the feeling that one of them is just here....odd and wonderful all at the same time! We are human, grieve is necessary and no one does it the same.
I'm so Thankful that you found EmpowHER and reached out...by sharing YOU are helping someone and maybe WE can help you to know that YOU ARE PERFECT and no matter what you were lucky and blessed because YOU had that wonderful Mother and were there when she needed you most and your courage and strength now is a gift that YOU can share with YOUR SISTERS and others, as well as the tears which are the crystals of your precious soul bathing you!
Debbie, may each minute, hour and day bring YOU something that will be of comfort.
Asking for help is a very powerful step and you have taken it, other steps follow. Know that YOU have done just what YOUR MOTHER raised YOU to do....she gave you courage and strength and you are sharing with others from the EmpowHER community to YOUR SISTERS to all those who share your Mother's love and memories...
Feel the many vitual HUGS that are being sent to YOU and all the BUTTERFLY KISSES...
July 9, 2009 - 4:45pmRespectfully, Princeline
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