I try my best to look at all poor relationship moments as training. These bad moments that we work through will either help our relationship be stronger in the long run for having worked through it, or be something to help us in our future relationships. Eventually everyone finds the person that they are meant to be with (or so I like to think (: ) and this training helps us to be the perfect mate for them, and vice versa.
Although I know it hurts when you finally realize that you cannot be with the person you love anymore, the realization itself will never go away and there is no way to fight it. Be strong and make your decision for what is right for you. And even though it will hurt initially, you will be happy and will know that you did the right thing afterward.
Also, I always had this notion that if you stay with someone when you are unhappy it is crueler than breaking up with them. What if during this time that you two are unhappy, the person you are meant to be with comes and goes? Or the person he is meant to be with comes and goes? It is far crueler to deny them the chance to find true love, than to break their heart.
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Thank you for sharing your letter Dwain!
I try my best to look at all poor relationship moments as training. These bad moments that we work through will either help our relationship be stronger in the long run for having worked through it, or be something to help us in our future relationships. Eventually everyone finds the person that they are meant to be with (or so I like to think (: ) and this training helps us to be the perfect mate for them, and vice versa.
Although I know it hurts when you finally realize that you cannot be with the person you love anymore, the realization itself will never go away and there is no way to fight it. Be strong and make your decision for what is right for you. And even though it will hurt initially, you will be happy and will know that you did the right thing afterward.
Also, I always had this notion that if you stay with someone when you are unhappy it is crueler than breaking up with them. What if during this time that you two are unhappy, the person you are meant to be with comes and goes? Or the person he is meant to be with comes and goes? It is far crueler to deny them the chance to find true love, than to break their heart.
March 17, 2011 - 9:17amThis Comment
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