Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your comment. There are many ways to be intimate without having sex. I know that's a big way, but if your boyfriend doesn't want to engage in sexual intercourse, you have to respect that. From my own experience, if you're not on board with waiting, then you may want to figure out for yourself if you are in this relationship for what it could be, or if you need something else in your life right now. You are young. If you want to "try on" a few people before settling down, your 20s are the time to figure that out. Don't resign yourself to one guy if you're not ready for that type of commitment. Think about it, and do what's right for you. Talk this over with your boyfriend. The two of you can come to a logical decision together, and decide what's best for you right now and to ensure a bright future for both of you regardless if it's together or apart.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Anonymous,
February 24, 2011 - 8:57amThanks for your comment. There are many ways to be intimate without having sex. I know that's a big way, but if your boyfriend doesn't want to engage in sexual intercourse, you have to respect that. From my own experience, if you're not on board with waiting, then you may want to figure out for yourself if you are in this relationship for what it could be, or if you need something else in your life right now. You are young. If you want to "try on" a few people before settling down, your 20s are the time to figure that out. Don't resign yourself to one guy if you're not ready for that type of commitment. Think about it, and do what's right for you. Talk this over with your boyfriend. The two of you can come to a logical decision together, and decide what's best for you right now and to ensure a bright future for both of you regardless if it's together or apart.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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