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Listen, I can't speak for all the other guys, I can't only speak for myself. I am that guy that has lost complete sexual interest in my girlfriend of five year. I love her a lot. But there are several reasons why my sex drive went down for her. 1) She stopped caring about her weight. She has put on at least 45+ pounds since I've met her. I have never once told her she was fat. (No, she never had kids, so its not n excuse) Why does this matter? Because before putting on all this weight, she was active during sex, now she can barely get on top of me. 2) She used to be on the pill until she stopped taking them because her prescription ran out, (she wants to go natural) even though she know I hate using a condom. During our first few years of the relationship, we have never used a condom. I can't go back to rubber after all those years. BS. I love her, I really do. I'm not going to cheat on her, but men are visual creatures, so a women is going to get out of me what she puts into herself. If my girlfriend want to let herself go, then naturally she's going to lose some of her sex appeal.