I just want to say that y'all are obviously young and I wish you the best. One thing you might possibly consider is that there are highly pervasive messages force-fed to us by the media. After a while, they make their mark. One of the most prevalent is that the male is the sexual aggressor and that the majority of females indulge their partners for reasons other than sexual pleasure. But, that's just my take on things. I'm older, male, and I admit very bitter. Regardless if I'm right or wrong, I hope your situation resolves itself. Take heart in the fact that despite the arguments and issues surrounding sexuality, the Caucasian birth rate has been so suppressed that not only will there be an Hispanic majority in the U.S. by 2049 (hard fact check the U.S. Census Bureau and the P.E.W. Institute), but some speculate that extinction is on the visible horizon. Of course, we would all eventually inter-marry so I suppose that's inevitable. I'm white but I'm sure have African blood in me somewhere and I don't have a problem with that. But be vigilant that there is an ever broadening schism separating white males and females. As to the real reason...who can say? It is what it is. As for me, I can't help but feel somewhat vindicated because like yourself, I always thought there was something wrong with me. The larger vision is that sexless relationships are a mathematical reality for my native culture at large. Questionnaires and polls can be inaccurate or mislead but birth-rate statistics and the projections based on them do not. I'm Catholic and envy the value system of Hispanic people. Hopefully they'll do great things with America. God Bless.
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I just want to say that y'all are obviously young and I wish you the best. One thing you might possibly consider is that there are highly pervasive messages force-fed to us by the media. After a while, they make their mark. One of the most prevalent is that the male is the sexual aggressor and that the majority of females indulge their partners for reasons other than sexual pleasure. But, that's just my take on things. I'm older, male, and I admit very bitter. Regardless if I'm right or wrong, I hope your situation resolves itself. Take heart in the fact that despite the arguments and issues surrounding sexuality, the Caucasian birth rate has been so suppressed that not only will there be an Hispanic majority in the U.S. by 2049 (hard fact check the U.S. Census Bureau and the P.E.W. Institute), but some speculate that extinction is on the visible horizon. Of course, we would all eventually inter-marry so I suppose that's inevitable. I'm white but I'm sure have African blood in me somewhere and I don't have a problem with that. But be vigilant that there is an ever broadening schism separating white males and females. As to the real reason...who can say? It is what it is. As for me, I can't help but feel somewhat vindicated because like yourself, I always thought there was something wrong with me. The larger vision is that sexless relationships are a mathematical reality for my native culture at large. Questionnaires and polls can be inaccurate or mislead but birth-rate statistics and the projections based on them do not. I'm Catholic and envy the value system of Hispanic people. Hopefully they'll do great things with America. God Bless.
October 23, 2010 - 9:05pmThis Comment
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