Im having similar issues, I am the female but I am the one with more of the sex drive and I am the one who makes the move. He is 25 and I am 21 so its not that hes old or cheating on me. I have talked to him about it and he is just super stressed out fincancialy, it affects his confidence in our relaionship because he cant take me out as much or pay for everything. I think its an insecurity. He let himself go, he gained like 10 pounds, think were just really comfortable with each other as well and hes getting lazy. we still have sex but I take the lead more often. Dont think your guy is cheating on you automatically, guys are sensitive too to stress, it can affect their mood and make them want it less.
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Im having similar issues, I am the female but I am the one with more of the sex drive and I am the one who makes the move. He is 25 and I am 21 so its not that hes old or cheating on me. I have talked to him about it and he is just super stressed out fincancialy, it affects his confidence in our relaionship because he cant take me out as much or pay for everything. I think its an insecurity. He let himself go, he gained like 10 pounds, think were just really comfortable with each other as well and hes getting lazy. we still have sex but I take the lead more often. Dont think your guy is cheating on you automatically, guys are sensitive too to stress, it can affect their mood and make them want it less.
October 22, 2010 - 11:24pmThis Comment
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