My oppinion is that if two people really love one another that they can communicate and find a solutions. Men are different then women and when they have financial difficulties and feel as though they are slacking in there man hood and what is expected of them as the man. It mentally blocks there capability to focus on sex. Sometimes they will turn to porn instead of having sex with there woman because there is no expectation there to fullfill there mate just thenselves and mentally that is all they can do. Men can be disattached emotionally from understanding a woman's needs for sex and love and they don't mean to neglect there woman or make her feel rejected or alone but just quite don't get it. That is why communicating is important. Do not point fingers or threaten to cheat but explain how you are feeling and state posative comments such as "I love you and only you and want for us to fix whatever is causing us to disattach sexually." " You satisfy sexually and I miss your touch, we can work it out cause we love one another and have been through many difficulties and changes." Boost your mans selfesteeem, make him feel he is still the man and in charge of making the decision to have sex with you but really your manipulating him into putting out and giving you want you want and need and should get without having to fight for it. If communicationg does not work and he still has excuses, then I would expect he is interested in someone else or is cheating or is thinking about cheating. It is not common for a man to turn away sex, lets face it they are dogs. So when they don't put out for a long time something is up and believe me a woman will find out and get to the bottome of it. Don't cheat on him this will only bring more problems in your life and you will feel horrible later and regret it. You only hurt yourself or worse get stuck in a love triangle and from expierence its hell!
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My oppinion is that if two people really love one another that they can communicate and find a solutions. Men are different then women and when they have financial difficulties and feel as though they are slacking in there man hood and what is expected of them as the man. It mentally blocks there capability to focus on sex. Sometimes they will turn to porn instead of having sex with there woman because there is no expectation there to fullfill there mate just thenselves and mentally that is all they can do. Men can be disattached emotionally from understanding a woman's needs for sex and love and they don't mean to neglect there woman or make her feel rejected or alone but just quite don't get it. That is why communicating is important. Do not point fingers or threaten to cheat but explain how you are feeling and state posative comments such as "I love you and only you and want for us to fix whatever is causing us to disattach sexually." " You satisfy sexually and I miss your touch, we can work it out cause we love one another and have been through many difficulties and changes." Boost your mans selfesteeem, make him feel he is still the man and in charge of making the decision to have sex with you but really your manipulating him into putting out and giving you want you want and need and should get without having to fight for it. If communicationg does not work and he still has excuses, then I would expect he is interested in someone else or is cheating or is thinking about cheating. It is not common for a man to turn away sex, lets face it they are dogs. So when they don't put out for a long time something is up and believe me a woman will find out and get to the bottome of it. Don't cheat on him this will only bring more problems in your life and you will feel horrible later and regret it. You only hurt yourself or worse get stuck in a love triangle and from expierence its hell!
September 12, 2010 - 2:45amThis Comment
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