Oh I know, and that is what the most frustrating part is. He was never physcially abused. His parents are split up but both are in his life. Not in the greatest way, but mind you he didnt help the sitution in which he is in either, and i tell him that all the time.
I live at home and he lives at his. I know I am young and i need to enjoy my life. I have been in other relationships, this is my first one that i have fallen in love with. I am currently just trying to work up my own courage to tell him i cant do it anymore. Because i have been his only support. But I need to start looking out for myself. I want to move away see the world and experience a lot. the hardest part was that we both had the same dreams and aspirations and i would love to do it with him. But i cant if it is going to be this way.
You are right, I am not going to stick around and end up wasting my good years and leaving when im 30. THAT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Nor I or anyone deserves that. Thats what i find so hard for women in this prediciment, becasue you love that person so much and you dont want to lose them, yet by holding on for so long, your only losing yourself right?
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Oh I know, and that is what the most frustrating part is. He was never physcially abused. His parents are split up but both are in his life. Not in the greatest way, but mind you he didnt help the sitution in which he is in either, and i tell him that all the time.
I live at home and he lives at his. I know I am young and i need to enjoy my life. I have been in other relationships, this is my first one that i have fallen in love with. I am currently just trying to work up my own courage to tell him i cant do it anymore. Because i have been his only support. But I need to start looking out for myself. I want to move away see the world and experience a lot. the hardest part was that we both had the same dreams and aspirations and i would love to do it with him. But i cant if it is going to be this way.
You are right, I am not going to stick around and end up wasting my good years and leaving when im 30. THAT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Nor I or anyone deserves that. Thats what i find so hard for women in this prediciment, becasue you love that person so much and you dont want to lose them, yet by holding on for so long, your only losing yourself right?
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