I think its clear to see this is a common problem - i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we do love each other - get lots of hugs but sex is a rarity. i never feel special and he never tells me a i look good after spending ages making an effort for him. Its not that he doesn't love me - he just doesn't notice me anymore. In one hand i feel i should be lucky that he loves me so much - yet on the other hand - why should i sacrifice my own happiness. i won't leave him as i don't believe that we have a bad relationship - but i should never feel that a random makes me feel better and worth more than my own boyfriend?
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I think its clear to see this is a common problem - i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we do love each other - get lots of hugs but sex is a rarity. i never feel special and he never tells me a i look good after spending ages making an effort for him. Its not that he doesn't love me - he just doesn't notice me anymore. In one hand i feel i should be lucky that he loves me so much - yet on the other hand - why should i sacrifice my own happiness. i won't leave him as i don't believe that we have a bad relationship - but i should never feel that a random makes me feel better and worth more than my own boyfriend?
May 9, 2010 - 3:40amThis Comment
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