I'm so sorry that it has come to this decision for you. But I have to say that I think you are leaning in the right direction by considering leaving him. He doesn't seem to have any interest in helping to solve the relationship's problems, and he seems to make you more unhappy than happy. Between the active dating sites, his attitude about seeing a doctor for help, and the fact that your self esteem is now so low that you spend several days crying at a time, I can't see what there is here for you.
My question is this. When you say it's about time for an ultimatum, to move into the next step or move on, what exactly do you mean? What would the "next step" be, and are you sure you want that with someone who treats you ike this?
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Anon,
I'm so sorry that it has come to this decision for you. But I have to say that I think you are leaning in the right direction by considering leaving him. He doesn't seem to have any interest in helping to solve the relationship's problems, and he seems to make you more unhappy than happy. Between the active dating sites, his attitude about seeing a doctor for help, and the fact that your self esteem is now so low that you spend several days crying at a time, I can't see what there is here for you.
My question is this. When you say it's about time for an ultimatum, to move into the next step or move on, what exactly do you mean? What would the "next step" be, and are you sure you want that with someone who treats you ike this?
May 3, 2010 - 10:48amThis Comment
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