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im 20, my boyfriend is 19 (nearly 20) and we've been together for 2 years 5 months and 1 day. in the beginning, the first 9 or 10 months of our relationship, he was all over me. then it stopped. more or less completely. i lost my virginity to him and i feel so cheated. i love him with all my heart and i know he loves me, he says he still fancies me and i know he would never cheat. but im too young to have lost my sex life. i only just started to have one and i now i feel like he's taken it away from me. i hate that it bothers me so much. i love him and the fact that he doesnt need sex is ok, i suppose i dont NEED it either. but i want it. i want to be wanted. and its actually killing me that he doesnt want me. ive tried to talk to him about it but he wont at all and just gets annoyed at me. thers nothing going on with uni or home or anything that could be making him stressed. hes th most laid back person i know! i dont know what to do. i thought it would make me feel better knowing i wasnt the only person going through this. but it doesnt. in fact i think it actually hurts more.