thank you soooo much Alison i have never looked at it that way! the stereotype is that men are the ones who always have the sex drive and not women. however i know that not to be the case due to the situation i am in (and many other women who seem to have broken the mold)...........why then can men decide they don't want sex.........you're right.........we have stereotyped men too much and now feel it a personal insult when they turn us down. I have become so wrapped up in why my man doesn't want me that i have lost all confidence and that is wrong. it was never about me in the first place...he has his own issues and i have added to them with my selfishness. i feel a lot better now and am going to try and re-build my confidence and help my man feel better too. really i appreciate what you posted, it's really helped to change my view.
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thank you soooo much Alison i have never looked at it that way! the stereotype is that men are the ones who always have the sex drive and not women. however i know that not to be the case due to the situation i am in (and many other women who seem to have broken the mold)...........why then can men decide they don't want sex.........you're right.........we have stereotyped men too much and now feel it a personal insult when they turn us down. I have become so wrapped up in why my man doesn't want me that i have lost all confidence and that is wrong. it was never about me in the first place...he has his own issues and i have added to them with my selfishness. i feel a lot better now and am going to try and re-build my confidence and help my man feel better too. really i appreciate what you posted, it's really helped to change my view.
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Kayleigh
March 15, 2010 - 5:51amThis Comment
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