Yes I have used the letter tactic....and yes it definitely helped. I have found in my experience that the letter helps me get everything out in the open. My b/f is not an easy person to talk too at times and before i can get out what I am feeling, its a full blown argument. He has read my letters and responded with how he never knew I felt the way I was feeling. he would also express how he felt about certain things and then we both would have a picture of what each one of us is experiencing and then from there we both make an attempt to change what we are doing or not doing to make the other unhappy.
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Yes I have used the letter tactic....and yes it definitely helped. I have found in my experience that the letter helps me get everything out in the open. My b/f is not an easy person to talk too at times and before i can get out what I am feeling, its a full blown argument. He has read my letters and responded with how he never knew I felt the way I was feeling. he would also express how he felt about certain things and then we both would have a picture of what each one of us is experiencing and then from there we both make an attempt to change what we are doing or not doing to make the other unhappy.
It truly makes a difference.
March 5, 2010 - 12:09pmThis Comment
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