You know, I've been with my boyfriend for two years on March 8th. We used to have sex EVERY time we saw one another, wich was usually 5 out of 7 nights a week. We did it 13 times in 12 hours once. Then, in September I moved in with him and now, we never have sex. It was about 2 or 3 times a week for a while, but then his bestfriend moved in with us, and since then, its been MAYBE once a week. And when we DO finally do it, its quick, not passionate, not exciting, NOTHING. I feel like he's doing it just so he doesn't have to hear me bitch anymore. I've even made jokes about how if he doesn't take care of it, 'I'll just do it myself', and he just makes jokes back about how that's less work for him. When we seriously talk about it, he just says there's no problem and that he's just not in the mood anymore. We never even KISS kiss anymore, other than a peck before he leaves for work. I don't have any kind of sollution for you...all I know is that you're not the only one with this issue, and if you find a sollution...let me know!!
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You know, I've been with my boyfriend for two years on March 8th. We used to have sex EVERY time we saw one another, wich was usually 5 out of 7 nights a week. We did it 13 times in 12 hours once. Then, in September I moved in with him and now, we never have sex. It was about 2 or 3 times a week for a while, but then his bestfriend moved in with us, and since then, its been MAYBE once a week. And when we DO finally do it, its quick, not passionate, not exciting, NOTHING. I feel like he's doing it just so he doesn't have to hear me bitch anymore. I've even made jokes about how if he doesn't take care of it, 'I'll just do it myself', and he just makes jokes back about how that's less work for him. When we seriously talk about it, he just says there's no problem and that he's just not in the mood anymore. We never even KISS kiss anymore, other than a peck before he leaves for work. I don't have any kind of sollution for you...all I know is that you're not the only one with this issue, and if you find a sollution...let me know!!
February 25, 2010 - 12:12pmThis Comment
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