Ive been married for almost 7 yrs now. Last year somewhere around September, is when i first noticed a change in my sex life with my husband. He had such a high sex drive. i dont know what happened. Now instead of him chasing me for sex, i found myself chasing him. Seemed like i was being a bother so i left him alone, waiting for him to want me. i pleasure myself to sleep almost everynight. I even cry afterwards sometimes.
i dont think hes cheating on me. i dont mean to toot my own horn but im not bad looking at all. I just feel that we are too young to be going through this already. I am 31 he's 32. I definatly know that he was'nt bored with the sex. Im the open one. I'm the one who wants to try new things, the one who will do anything to please my man. ive talked to him and tell him how im feeling. He tells me that his job is tireding.That he may need to start taking vitamins. I bought him vitamins three weeks ago. We had sex last Saturday, he came in under 2 min. This also happened the last time we had sex as well, which was about three weeks before that Saturday. And this is not like him at all. He would last for hours at a time.
I do sometime think of being with other men. I dream about it almost everynight. If he was just a boyfriend, I would have been gone by now. But he is my husband, the father of my kids. I love him, but i want the old him back. Im married, but im lonely and unwanted.
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Ive been married for almost 7 yrs now. Last year somewhere around September, is when i first noticed a change in my sex life with my husband. He had such a high sex drive. i dont know what happened. Now instead of him chasing me for sex, i found myself chasing him. Seemed like i was being a bother so i left him alone, waiting for him to want me. i pleasure myself to sleep almost everynight. I even cry afterwards sometimes.
February 2, 2010 - 8:08pmi dont think hes cheating on me. i dont mean to toot my own horn but im not bad looking at all. I just feel that we are too young to be going through this already. I am 31 he's 32. I definatly know that he was'nt bored with the sex. Im the open one. I'm the one who wants to try new things, the one who will do anything to please my man. ive talked to him and tell him how im feeling. He tells me that his job is tireding.That he may need to start taking vitamins. I bought him vitamins three weeks ago. We had sex last Saturday, he came in under 2 min. This also happened the last time we had sex as well, which was about three weeks before that Saturday. And this is not like him at all. He would last for hours at a time.
I do sometime think of being with other men. I dream about it almost everynight. If he was just a boyfriend, I would have been gone by now. But he is my husband, the father of my kids. I love him, but i want the old him back. Im married, but im lonely and unwanted.
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