how old are the two of you? How long have you been together? Do you live together? My bf did the same thing to me, at first I would cry about it in front of him and he would just say he couldnt help it. He didnt seem to have much sympathy towards my feelings. I found the more I keep asking him about it he seemed to get mad and I ended up crying. So I just let it go. I stop asking about it and ACTED like it didnt bother me. (even though it did) I changed my attitude and told him that he was a great boyfriend and I was real happy to be his girlfriend in bed before we went to sleep. (feed him positive compliments)Then I would turn around and go to sleep. anyways it seemed to work. A couple of weeks later he wanted sex. And now we do. Maybe 1 or 2 times a week. In my opinion you have to show that you care about him for who he is. Sex is not as important as we think. If he is a great guy otherwise consider your self better off than other girls. Would you rather have awesome sex with a romantic guy who doesnt love you? I've had that before with my ex and believe me you dont want that! My bf and I have been together for over a year now.
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how old are the two of you? How long have you been together? Do you live together? My bf did the same thing to me, at first I would cry about it in front of him and he would just say he couldnt help it. He didnt seem to have much sympathy towards my feelings. I found the more I keep asking him about it he seemed to get mad and I ended up crying. So I just let it go. I stop asking about it and ACTED like it didnt bother me. (even though it did) I changed my attitude and told him that he was a great boyfriend and I was real happy to be his girlfriend in bed before we went to sleep. (feed him positive compliments)Then I would turn around and go to sleep. anyways it seemed to work. A couple of weeks later he wanted sex. And now we do. Maybe 1 or 2 times a week. In my opinion you have to show that you care about him for who he is. Sex is not as important as we think. If he is a great guy otherwise consider your self better off than other girls. Would you rather have awesome sex with a romantic guy who doesnt love you? I've had that before with my ex and believe me you dont want that! My bf and I have been together for over a year now.
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