I personally think if a guy is saying he is too stressed out to have sex, he is either lying or really just doesn't care anymore. Sex IS a stress RELIEVER. Duh! I'm so tired of hearing the same excuse every night, "I'm too tired." It's like being in a reverse role in one of those tv shows, I'm the man always wanting sex while my husband is the tired housewife who never wants it. It's not like I don't offer to do all the work, in fact, I almost always offer to do all the work now-a-days. I've tried everything to get my husband in the mood, and the fact is, nothing has worked for me. We've been together nearly 10 years, married for just over 2 years. The sex was amazing for the first year or two, but after I had our son, it has gone downhill FAST. I assume that due to my female areas being altered he finds me less desirable. I guess that's a typical female response but I'd say it's logical. He wanted me more when we first got together because my body was fresh, new, not worn out and broken... I feel so helpless. I don't want to cheat on him but I can't cope anymore!!!!
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I personally think if a guy is saying he is too stressed out to have sex, he is either lying or really just doesn't care anymore. Sex IS a stress RELIEVER. Duh! I'm so tired of hearing the same excuse every night, "I'm too tired." It's like being in a reverse role in one of those tv shows, I'm the man always wanting sex while my husband is the tired housewife who never wants it. It's not like I don't offer to do all the work, in fact, I almost always offer to do all the work now-a-days. I've tried everything to get my husband in the mood, and the fact is, nothing has worked for me. We've been together nearly 10 years, married for just over 2 years. The sex was amazing for the first year or two, but after I had our son, it has gone downhill FAST. I assume that due to my female areas being altered he finds me less desirable. I guess that's a typical female response but I'd say it's logical. He wanted me more when we first got together because my body was fresh, new, not worn out and broken... I feel so helpless. I don't want to cheat on him but I can't cope anymore!!!!
September 21, 2009 - 12:10amThis Comment
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