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Ladies, it's actually not that you are overweight or not wearing the correct lingerie, or not attractive anymore. It's more your attitude about yourselves, your self-image. Taking on the blame, assuming it is your declining "looks" or physical attractiveness is a tell-tale sign of a very low self-esteem. At least if you can acknowledge that problem, that is a step forward toward something. That is a place to start. Stop putting the blame on the guy. And looking outward for the problem...The relationship takes two to tango, so you are part of the equation. While our problem we talk about here, is universal, our individual cases are tailor-made to our own issues, hang-ups, problems, history, personalities. So it's of no use comparing ourselves with other couples, or worrying if so and so already solved their problem and if they are gettin' it on in the sack again...no, don't be worried about other people. Just focus on yourselves. We are all different, but at the same time we share similarites.