Are you all at least talking? I remember me and my now boyfriend went through a stage where we weren't even talking much less seeing each other. He was saying that he loved me, but just didn't have the time to see me much less talk to me. I was frustrated and angry. Anyway, once things come down, he did finally inform me that he wasn't inlove with me anymore and that he loved me as a friend. He just fell out of love with me. "It's me, not you" kind of line. Anyway, don't ask, it's a long story but we are back together and doing well. Now we don't have sex that often, but that's mainly due to his heckted schedule which is going to get worse once basketball season begins. I will be honest with you, and I am getting this off of Tv and a close family member of mine, a woman's instinct's are 90% correct, so if you feel that something is up with you an your "bo" you need to sit down with him and talk with him and ask him what's up. Explain to him about how you feel and ask him if he is still serious about you. That is what I did? I kept on because I knew that the relationship just wasn't the same. One thing I have learned, is when a man stops calling as much, doesn't try to see you, and the sex is rare, you are losing your man, if you haven't lost him already. Been there and done that and the best thing to do is to sit down and talk with your man. Now I will admit to this, sometimes this doesn't work because some men are weak and aren't willing to tell you that they do not want to see you anymore. They would rather just stop calling and coming around and have you wondering what happened than to tell you they no longer want to see you. Rent that tape or that movie that derived from Sex and the City, I can't remember the name of it, but it explains to you why men do the things they do and when a man is interested or not. After listening to this tape you will see all the signs that have been in front of you. I hope this helps.
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Are you all at least talking? I remember me and my now boyfriend went through a stage where we weren't even talking much less seeing each other. He was saying that he loved me, but just didn't have the time to see me much less talk to me. I was frustrated and angry. Anyway, once things come down, he did finally inform me that he wasn't inlove with me anymore and that he loved me as a friend. He just fell out of love with me. "It's me, not you" kind of line. Anyway, don't ask, it's a long story but we are back together and doing well. Now we don't have sex that often, but that's mainly due to his heckted schedule which is going to get worse once basketball season begins. I will be honest with you, and I am getting this off of Tv and a close family member of mine, a woman's instinct's are 90% correct, so if you feel that something is up with you an your "bo" you need to sit down with him and talk with him and ask him what's up. Explain to him about how you feel and ask him if he is still serious about you. That is what I did? I kept on because I knew that the relationship just wasn't the same. One thing I have learned, is when a man stops calling as much, doesn't try to see you, and the sex is rare, you are losing your man, if you haven't lost him already. Been there and done that and the best thing to do is to sit down and talk with your man. Now I will admit to this, sometimes this doesn't work because some men are weak and aren't willing to tell you that they do not want to see you anymore. They would rather just stop calling and coming around and have you wondering what happened than to tell you they no longer want to see you. Rent that tape or that movie that derived from Sex and the City, I can't remember the name of it, but it explains to you why men do the things they do and when a man is interested or not. After listening to this tape you will see all the signs that have been in front of you. I hope this helps.
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