This was such an enlightenment to see that other women are having the exact same problems. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and the first year was of course great. Over the past few months though, sex has slowly decreased. My boyfriend and I love each other so dearly, are the best of friends, and live together. We laugh and do all sorts of silly and fun things on a daily basis. He has no stress in his life right now I do not believe. Right now it's been a bit over three weeks since we last had sex. It used to happen about three times a week, then decreased to one, then to once every two weeks or so. Maybe the problem could be that we are around each other all the time? Because four weeks ago, he was out of town for five days on a job. We had sex before he left, once in the middle of those 5 days when he came back one night, and then when he got back. Three times in one week! But we haven't had sex since then, and we've been around each other everyday since then. It is getting so frustrating! I feel like such an idiot actually asking him to have sex with me, it brings me to tears writing about it! We want to spend our lives together, and I'm hoping this is just a stage or something. Any time I bring up sex he gets sort of mad and tells me not to talk about it! I apparently bring it up too much, and he just isn't in the mood. He also spends a lot of time on the computer, which I know must also be a distraction. I just don't know what to do anymore. All that is on my mind every single day, for most of the day, is sex! I am hoping and praying it will happen tonight. But it probably won't D:
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This was such an enlightenment to see that other women are having the exact same problems. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and the first year was of course great. Over the past few months though, sex has slowly decreased. My boyfriend and I love each other so dearly, are the best of friends, and live together. We laugh and do all sorts of silly and fun things on a daily basis. He has no stress in his life right now I do not believe. Right now it's been a bit over three weeks since we last had sex. It used to happen about three times a week, then decreased to one, then to once every two weeks or so. Maybe the problem could be that we are around each other all the time? Because four weeks ago, he was out of town for five days on a job. We had sex before he left, once in the middle of those 5 days when he came back one night, and then when he got back. Three times in one week! But we haven't had sex since then, and we've been around each other everyday since then. It is getting so frustrating! I feel like such an idiot actually asking him to have sex with me, it brings me to tears writing about it! We want to spend our lives together, and I'm hoping this is just a stage or something. Any time I bring up sex he gets sort of mad and tells me not to talk about it! I apparently bring it up too much, and he just isn't in the mood. He also spends a lot of time on the computer, which I know must also be a distraction. I just don't know what to do anymore. All that is on my mind every single day, for most of the day, is sex! I am hoping and praying it will happen tonight. But it probably won't D:
September 3, 2009 - 8:45pmThis Comment
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