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I have been with my girlfiend for about 13 years now. Never maried, just living together. She has always told me she is waiting on me to initiate. And I have always told her, If I do I should get some kind of response within a reasonable amount of time or I can assume you are not interested. I have never been the beat on my chest and take my woman when I want, type of person. Besides that would get old real quick. But when I lay next to her and rub her leg and kiss her back, and I get no response at all, then get blamed for not taking her like a man. Sometimes us men don't know what we should do. So now we just both lay in bed and hope the other does something, if not we both just go to sleep. Sometimes that can go on for three or more weeks. Then when we do have sex, I last all of three minutes when I used to last for hours. Well that just made things worse, and afaid to do it again for fear of lasting that long again. I know we should have more sex, but we put ourselves in this rut where it made us both unapproachable to eachother.