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I can't even believe that so many women are going through this.
It's sad, but helped me understand the things I'm going through a little bit better.
My boyfriend also stopped making moves, and whenever I hinted I wanted to be closer to him, he withdrawed or belittled my effort which made me feel ridiculous and ashamed.
He used to want me so much.
I became afraid of trying, because of his rejection and I decided I'd wait for him to want me again. But he never does, ever. I ended up not taking how far we are from each other physically and talking to him about it, which always led him to please me but it felt like I forced him, and the time passing (in which nothing happened between us) till i ended up saying something again, got longer and longer. So last time I talked to him about it, I said I needed to tell him how I felt, and that he was not allowed to touch me that night, because I didn't want him to feel I was forcing him.
That night, I asked him how could he be without making love with me, when It was so hard for me not to be with him. He takes care of himself and keeps me out. It's not me, I'm sure. But something is going on with him.
Ever since, I never touched the subject again, because it doesn't make things change.
I would never search for affection with anyone else because it's his affection I want. He wouldnt cheat either.
I don't even know how long it's been since we last were intimate.
All I can do is treat myself to some porn when I'm needy and he will never know.
I'm still waiting for the day his libido comes back.