Oh my goodness... thank you to all who posted here.... I have had this stupid IUD for almost two years and my world has shattered... my once loving and happy marriage has been crumbling before my eyes. I have been with my husband for 19 years and over the last two years we have had nothing but problems with intimacy. I love him more then life itself and couldn't understand why I was feeling repulsed at every advance. If he even tried to grab my boobs i felt like cringing. Haven't had sex in like 4/6 months. And any sex prior to that was not the way it should be or once was. Lost count honestly of how long in between we had nothing... no sex, holding hands, touching, kissing, etc.and didn't miss sex at all. No drive, no nothing. He has been rejected by me so much for so long that he can't do it anymore. It's gotten so bad that he started going out to the bars and meet someone in the last 2 months. No sex, but they've kissed and it hurts that he is finding passion in another because I couldn't give it to him. Now we are struggling to hang onto our marriage and family(2 kids). I have been feeling so rotten and depressed for so long about my loss of affection for my husband, that I thought after 19 years maybe it was 'just over'. Struggling so bad on how I love him so much and he is my "everything " , but feel nauseated to even think of intimacy in any fashion. I wish I had seen and thought of it being this stupid IUD before now. I fear that I waited too long to find this post and realize I'm not 'alone' because he is ready to end our marriage/family and see where this new women might take him. Sigh... I wasn't even going to post after I read all of yours, but thought I better. I hope no one else goes through what I am dealing with now. Our marriage is shattered and I fear un-repairable... I can only pray that we can work it out, but I think it's too late... I'm so broken and it's all to a stupid birth control. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow and I am having this taken out! Good luck to everyone
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Oh my goodness... thank you to all who posted here.... I have had this stupid IUD for almost two years and my world has shattered... my once loving and happy marriage has been crumbling before my eyes. I have been with my husband for 19 years and over the last two years we have had nothing but problems with intimacy. I love him more then life itself and couldn't understand why I was feeling repulsed at every advance. If he even tried to grab my boobs i felt like cringing. Haven't had sex in like 4/6 months. And any sex prior to that was not the way it should be or once was. Lost count honestly of how long in between we had nothing... no sex, holding hands, touching, kissing, etc.and didn't miss sex at all. No drive, no nothing. He has been rejected by me so much for so long that he can't do it anymore. It's gotten so bad that he started going out to the bars and meet someone in the last 2 months. No sex, but they've kissed and it hurts that he is finding passion in another because I couldn't give it to him. Now we are struggling to hang onto our marriage and family(2 kids). I have been feeling so rotten and depressed for so long about my loss of affection for my husband, that I thought after 19 years maybe it was 'just over'. Struggling so bad on how I love him so much and he is my "everything " , but feel nauseated to even think of intimacy in any fashion. I wish I had seen and thought of it being this stupid IUD before now. I fear that I waited too long to find this post and realize I'm not 'alone' because he is ready to end our marriage/family and see where this new women might take him. Sigh... I wasn't even going to post after I read all of yours, but thought I better. I hope no one else goes through what I am dealing with now. Our marriage is shattered and I fear un-repairable... I can only pray that we can work it out, but I think it's too late... I'm so broken and it's all to a stupid birth control. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow and I am having this taken out! Good luck to everyone
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