I'm new to this site - was talked into a hysterectomy several years ago, feel it has ruined my life. Have warned others, some listened, some didn't. Feel I don't have any options to right this wrong, want to sue, but don't think it'll do any good, wouldn't get my organs back anyway, statute of limitations has run out unless I qualify for an exception, feeling very discouraged and angry, and even afraid to talk to others about it, 'cause I don't want to ruin my "legal" options, as if there are any, just want my organs and my sex life and physical health back! Feeling guilty about even complaining, 'cause at least I still have my ovaries, but it's little consolation when I can't bear children anymore, nor enjoy sexual pleasure anymore, the criminals that did this to me are walking around with a smile on their faces, greenbacks in their pockets, and a great future, while I, their victim, get nothing but pain and loss. The only consolation I have right now is knowing that God is a just God, and he will avenge me eventually and punish doctors who swear an oath to "first do no harm" and then amputate and mutilate hapless women for profit and ruin their lives. It's frustrating that "normal" people will argue with me, not understand, think it's "all in my head" and that I should just "get over it." Even trying to warn other women is frustrating, because they think their doctors have their best interests at heart, and can't believe what I'm telling them. One woman did listen, and her organs were spared. I'm thankful for that small victory. But my personal pain is such that, I cry nearly every day, even years later.
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I'm new to this site - was talked into a hysterectomy several years ago, feel it has ruined my life. Have warned others, some listened, some didn't. Feel I don't have any options to right this wrong, want to sue, but don't think it'll do any good, wouldn't get my organs back anyway, statute of limitations has run out unless I qualify for an exception, feeling very discouraged and angry, and even afraid to talk to others about it, 'cause I don't want to ruin my "legal" options, as if there are any, just want my organs and my sex life and physical health back! Feeling guilty about even complaining, 'cause at least I still have my ovaries, but it's little consolation when I can't bear children anymore, nor enjoy sexual pleasure anymore, the criminals that did this to me are walking around with a smile on their faces, greenbacks in their pockets, and a great future, while I, their victim, get nothing but pain and loss. The only consolation I have right now is knowing that God is a just God, and he will avenge me eventually and punish doctors who swear an oath to "first do no harm" and then amputate and mutilate hapless women for profit and ruin their lives. It's frustrating that "normal" people will argue with me, not understand, think it's "all in my head" and that I should just "get over it." Even trying to warn other women is frustrating, because they think their doctors have their best interests at heart, and can't believe what I'm telling them. One woman did listen, and her organs were spared. I'm thankful for that small victory. But my personal pain is such that, I cry nearly every day, even years later.
December 3, 2011 - 3:08pmThis Comment
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