Hey, this is another paranoid girl! I'm only 16, so I'm really quite concerned.
My boyfriend and I had protected sex (condom) on the 30th, around about 11 days ago. We checked the condom together, and filled it with water- no holes or leaks occured.
I've only been sexually active for around about 3 months, only had sex 4 times. Each month, I've freaked out before my period, and I've gotten myself into a terrible state. I've also been diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder, so I know I can get worked up quite easily. I have an awful habit of punching myself in the lower stomach when I'm stressed- lately especially. My lower right stomach is quite sore to touch, and it's not helped one bit, obviously :(
My last period was on the 7th December (my period before that was on the 2nd November, so I had a bit of a long cycle of 35 days). I'm on day 33 of my cycle, and I'm panicking really badly. I show PMS symptoms, but I freak out because I know they could be early pregnancy ones too- my breasts are kinda sore (happened last month), my back aches, stomach has light cramping when I move around and I've felt a bit nauseas (worry?), so I'm a little unsure of what to think. I feel like I've been peeing a lot (but I could just be noticing it now because I'm looking for signs), but I thought last month I was peeing like crazy- yet my period came days later. I've had some creamy white discharge today, but only a small amount. Is this all normal?
Should I give myself a break or what? I'm seriously scared- same as every month since I began having sex, so my boyfriend & I have decided to put a hold on sex for now, as we both feel we don't need sex to show our love and passion for each other- and even though it's great, it's not worth the worrying!
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Hey, this is another paranoid girl! I'm only 16, so I'm really quite concerned.
My boyfriend and I had protected sex (condom) on the 30th, around about 11 days ago. We checked the condom together, and filled it with water- no holes or leaks occured.
I've only been sexually active for around about 3 months, only had sex 4 times. Each month, I've freaked out before my period, and I've gotten myself into a terrible state. I've also been diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder, so I know I can get worked up quite easily. I have an awful habit of punching myself in the lower stomach when I'm stressed- lately especially. My lower right stomach is quite sore to touch, and it's not helped one bit, obviously :(
My last period was on the 7th December (my period before that was on the 2nd November, so I had a bit of a long cycle of 35 days). I'm on day 33 of my cycle, and I'm panicking really badly. I show PMS symptoms, but I freak out because I know they could be early pregnancy ones too- my breasts are kinda sore (happened last month), my back aches, stomach has light cramping when I move around and I've felt a bit nauseas (worry?), so I'm a little unsure of what to think. I feel like I've been peeing a lot (but I could just be noticing it now because I'm looking for signs), but I thought last month I was peeing like crazy- yet my period came days later. I've had some creamy white discharge today, but only a small amount. Is this all normal?
Should I give myself a break or what? I'm seriously scared- same as every month since I began having sex, so my boyfriend & I have decided to put a hold on sex for now, as we both feel we don't need sex to show our love and passion for each other- and even though it's great, it's not worth the worrying!
Please help me out!
January 9, 2011 - 5:23pmThis Comment
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