My husband and I have been together 26 years. He was diagnosed with TIA and has found multiple blockages through out his bodies as well as 100% in his right neck. His attitude is horrible . Can't work (I understand he was a great provider) has put a lock on (what was our ) bedroom door. He is always angry and when he does say anything to me (never) it's so hateful. He refuses to help with car repairs, or groceries,( collects s.s.and retirement check) will not eat anything I cook, or wash his clothes. Some have heard some pretty nasty things he says of me(did I mention no intimate contact in 3 years) . He seems to work hard at professing "I don't want you or love you anymore" I'm so torn and at 54 , I'm scared. He promised FOREVER. I am depressed, crying , lonely (I really just need talking, acknowledgement,watching tv....all the things we were about. Trust me the sex thing I understand, I could love him even without it) I am ready to give up. I leave, it's just me, scared to attempt this again. I do love the man he once was. All the years of drinking and this illness may be the end. In more ways
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My husband and I have been together 26 years. He was diagnosed with TIA and has found multiple blockages through out his bodies as well as 100% in his right neck. His attitude is horrible . Can't work (I understand he was a great provider) has put a lock on (what was our ) bedroom door. He is always angry and when he does say anything to me (never) it's so hateful. He refuses to help with car repairs, or groceries,( collects s.s.and retirement check) will not eat anything I cook, or wash his clothes. Some have heard some pretty nasty things he says of me(did I mention no intimate contact in 3 years) . He seems to work hard at professing "I don't want you or love you anymore" I'm so torn and at 54 , I'm scared. He promised FOREVER. I am depressed, crying , lonely (I really just need talking, acknowledgement,watching tv....all the things we were about. Trust me the sex thing I understand, I could love him even without it) I am ready to give up. I leave, it's just me, scared to attempt this again. I do love the man he once was. All the years of drinking and this illness may be the end. In more ways
June 13, 2015 - 1:17amThis Comment
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