May you and someone you know be Blessed and continue to be a fighter to find the inner strength to press on.
I've been married for thirty+ yrs. Then five yrs. ago I had experienced a closed head injury. Many difficulties followed. My husband could not deal with my head injury. He commented that he didn't know me anymore and that it was like I was opened up and the real me was taken away and replaced with a stranger. I suppose if there was a crutch or cast he'd been more receptable. Well he cursed me out and made it impossible to be near him and to live in our home or work together. I didn't know this side of him. I began to fear him. I would avoid being in his presense out of fear. I needed to take care of me and my injuries. He began seeing other women. First locally then via the internet. Which has been ongoing for several yrs. now. Dec. 2010, five yrs. after my injury he's been diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. That hasn't stopped him from contact with the other women. It has made him re-evaluate his life with me. I love him. I want him to be well. I feel for his life change. I had loved ones dianosed with cancer. It's not a death sentence by any chance. As much as I feel very depressed and
alone since my injury I know he too feels the same since his diagnoses. Why does bad things happen to good people?!
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May you and someone you know be Blessed and continue to be a fighter to find the inner strength to press on.
August 26, 2011 - 1:51amI've been married for thirty+ yrs. Then five yrs. ago I had experienced a closed head injury. Many difficulties followed. My husband could not deal with my head injury. He commented that he didn't know me anymore and that it was like I was opened up and the real me was taken away and replaced with a stranger. I suppose if there was a crutch or cast he'd been more receptable. Well he cursed me out and made it impossible to be near him and to live in our home or work together. I didn't know this side of him. I began to fear him. I would avoid being in his presense out of fear. I needed to take care of me and my injuries. He began seeing other women. First locally then via the internet. Which has been ongoing for several yrs. now. Dec. 2010, five yrs. after my injury he's been diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. That hasn't stopped him from contact with the other women. It has made him re-evaluate his life with me. I love him. I want him to be well. I feel for his life change. I had loved ones dianosed with cancer. It's not a death sentence by any chance. As much as I feel very depressed and
alone since my injury I know he too feels the same since his diagnoses. Why does bad things happen to good people?!
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