What turns on women? For the most part, it’s no big secret. If a man works to create a strong connection with the woman in his life, she will be turned on. Below are more examples of what turns on all kinds of women.

Being Close
The biggest turn on for a woman is feeling emotionally close to her partner. It’s not the fancy car or money in bank. While men generally look at the external, most women look inside. She wants a soul mate, someone she connects with on all levels.

A Good Listener
Women are turned on by men who listen and pay attention. If a woman feels her concerns are important to her man, she will more likely desire intimacy. Women don’t usually want to get physical with men who dismiss their concerns.

Treats Her with Respect
Treat a woman with respect and she’ll be far more willing to get cozy. A man who speaks disrespectfully may find his partner’s enthusiasm for intimacy has decreased.

Verbal Reassurance
Women are verbal creatures. They need occasional reassurances they are important to their men. A big turn on for a woman is to hear loving words whispered in her ear.

Good Hygiene
Down and dirty doesn’t cut it for many women. This may seem obvious but some men overlook it and then wonder why their partner avoids intimacy.

Men Who Act Like Men
A woman respects a man who has emotional strength. With pressures increasing on women to work, raise children and take care of the home, a big turn on is a man strong enough to shoulder some of the load.

Men Who Make Love in a Leisurely Manner
Those who spend time mastering the art of love-making are who women want to be with the most. Men who take time beforehand to help her relax will lead to mutual fun.

Excellent Kissers
A man who knows how to kiss will get much further. Women are not fans of men who slobber or don’t know what to do with their tongues.

The Right Kind of Attitude
Men who have the right attitude, and don’t take things for granted, will impress the heck out of women.

Sense of Humor
A sense of humor is a big turn on for many women. Men, who are comfortable enough to laugh at themselves and not take things too seriously, are very attractive to women.

Stacy Lloyd is a writer and video producer in Phoenix, Arizona. A former television news journalist, she covered stories around the world. Currently, she produces corporate and non-profit videos and broadcast programming.