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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.


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Miss Susan Cody, i hope you read this. I really need your help.
Me and my girlfriend had a shower together. I slid my "tool" to hers. There was no penetration at all even an inch. I am just nervous because her menstruation have not come yet. She usually had it every last week or first week of the month. Is it possible that she is pregnant? I am still young, but please give me some suggestions or advice as to how to deal with this problem? Thank you!

August 18, 2013 - 2:51pm
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My boyfriend might've fingered me with precum I'm scared I might be pregnant this was on the 6 of July. I got my period on the 26 which was too days late with a little bit of blood clots on the 26 of July now I have white lotiony discharge . Is there a chance I could be pregnant?

August 5, 2013 - 2:17pm

Me and my girlfriend never had deep penetreation sex and did it for the first time. I'm just worried about my precums. I inserted just the head of my penis to her and later for about 5seconds. What are the odds of her getting pregnant? I can't even sleep because of this. She had her period last July 8 and did it on July 23. Please someone answer my question. :(

July 26, 2013 - 6:52pm

me and my boy friend had sex. he did not insert but kept his penis on my vagina and rubbed. but few drop of blood came after 30mins. i had my periods day before yesterday. will i get pregnant??

July 19, 2013 - 5:45am
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Me and my boyfriend tried having sex and he put it in 3 times for ten seconds and I have had about three "period" which all lasted 4 days with blood clots and normal flow I guess. I took a pregnancy test at the doctors after a month which was negative and another one after 7 weeks which was still negative. I have got gastrtits and anemia. I think I am not ovulating. The things is that I feel extremely bloated and I have pains near my ovaries what can it be what are the chance of being pregnant from my situation should I let it go?

July 6, 2013 - 9:15pm
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Hey there guys although I know you guys want to expire ment I am telling you that it's not worth it. It's possible to get pregnant this way. I was going through the same scare but yesterday after a month of the happening I got a negative pregnancy test. I had a urine test done at the doctors and it came back negative. Some people won't be as lucky as I was . I'm not pregnant bc I had a period on the right date I was suppose to. I am really relieve but guys please wear protection so nothing bad can happen. I am never gonna do that again until I'm the right age to do so. I was so paranoid of being pregnant at a young age that I started feeling symptoms.they were all in my head. To the point where I had to tell my mom what was going on. She was mad and took me to the doctor and the test came back negative and I'm relieved. I learned a big lesson from this and I hope you guys do too.

May 16, 2013 - 10:50am
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Hey again, me and my bf attempted to have sexual intercourse he inserted it twice for like 3 seconds this took place on April 12 I had a period on April 3 that lasted 3 days. I got my period on may 3 although it lasted one more day than usually. It's been a month and I am concerned I'm anemic and I'm not ready to have a kid. I'm 15. My moms gonna take me to a doctor. I am really scared it might come back positive. It's been a month Andy stomach feels weird and plus I have had backaches. And I'm unable to eat. Am I pregnant?

May 14, 2013 - 12:57pm
EmpowHER Guest

I have had symptoms and I'm also anemic and this is a continuation of the April 12th one

May 14, 2013 - 10:40am
EmpowHER Guest

Hai me and my bf tried having sex he only inserted t twice tie was on.april 12 I had my period on may 3 can I be pregnant?

May 14, 2013 - 6:12am
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Hello Anonymous,

You had a period, which began on May 3, therefore you are not pregnant.

When a woman is pregnant the uterine lining remains intact, so it is not shed and no period.


May 14, 2013 - 7:34am
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