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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.


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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I think it's possible, but unlikely that you would get pregnant under these circumstances. If you still don't have your period, why don't you go ahead and buy a home test. The sooner you know, the better, and if you're not pregnant, then you'll be able to stop worrying. It's not uncommon to have late periods even when you're not pregnant.

In the future, I would not fix a condom that was inside out - just throw it out and use a new one. It's definitely possible that a few sperm were hanging out on the other side of that condom, even if you couldn't see any semen.

And while it's too late for this time, if you're old enough, remember that you can get Plan B for situations like this. And continue to be careful! I am in my 40s and have only ever had unprotected sex one time, but that was all it took to get me pregnant.

I hope things work out ok for you.

December 21, 2011 - 10:54am
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Anonymous (reply to Alison Beaver)

hii... im a girl of 24.. n im still a virgin.. i need to find out the answer to the question formally asked because i have experieced the same situation. My bf did not ejaculate on me, but there may have been some pre ejaculatory fluid. All i need to know... is there any chance i can get pregnant with it?... while my hymen is still intact.. because i hardly play sports aswel.. n we have never had sex aswell?

Please Help ASAP

July 15, 2010 - 7:47am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I saw ur post and the same has happend to me i just want to know what ur results werre so i can calm.down a bit please. I wasnt that worried till i actually started thinking about it.

November 25, 2011 - 5:43pm
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