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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.


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Ms. Susan, I'm a bit curious. Can i assure that may gf is not pregnant when she menstruated 2 times (Aug, Sept) after the miracle we did? thanks :)

October 12, 2013 - 5:52pm
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i am male married and trying for children. .low sperm motility found . i am facing some erection problem. putting inside of her...but dont know how much inside it should go into vagina. and while ejaculating sperm is coming outside..feeling like it is not into vagina...but if we see from outside it is looking inside...how to know about this...pls help me...

one more question if we imagined other girls while doing sex dies it have any effect in the pregnancy or not...is it bad...

October 5, 2013 - 12:37pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

hi susan,

can u pls reply me...i m female asking for my husband...

October 20, 2013 - 8:23am
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i had sex with my gf 6 days after her period after i take out my penis from his vagina there is a small amount of sperm in my meatus but it is like a water. will she get pregnant with that ?

October 2, 2013 - 7:24pm
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This morning my boyfriend and I were fooling around I gave him head he didn't ejaculate then we stopped and were making out and eventually he inserted just the tip into me but it wasn't for long and it wasn't that deep in it was like an inch or so. He didn't ejaculate at all but I'm somehow worried. What should I do?

September 30, 2013 - 1:23pm
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Hey, so my fiance and I hadn't seen each other in a while, last night we were making out, etc. witch we do often. Well we didn't have a condom and didn't plan to, but he just stuck it in once and took it out. I know you can get pregnant from pre-cum, but he never even came last night. But it was our first time so i just need to know, could i be pregnant?

September 30, 2013 - 1:20pm
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hi, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex 6days after having my period, it was unplanned and we did not have condom at that time, he inserted his penis only half and by mistake he ejaculated while taking his penis out from my vagina. Soon after that, some 30mins after, he bought an emergency contraceptive pill - ipill which i took immediately. Im very worried whether there is a risk of pregnancy and also my periods are very irregular and i dont know what is the exact day i will ovulate..

September 30, 2013 - 9:29am
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My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago and he was not using a condom and ejaculated inside me but only for a quick second and it was my first day ovulating. Could there be a chance I'm pregnant? Help

September 23, 2013 - 9:32pm
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my gf got periods on Sep 10 and we tried to have sex for the first time on Oct 2. as she was afraid I did not entered my pennies totally but only rubbed on her vagina with condom and without condom for few minutes. is there any possibility of her conceiving within deep penetration?
in this month of Oct till today 21 Oct she did not get periods even after eating papaya and etc. Do you think that she is conceived?

September 20, 2013 - 11:03pm
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Hello, as I am on this website because I have a huge concern. I have a boyfriend who is sexually more experienced than I am since I am a virgin. One day I went over his house, and some things lead to others. He tried penetrating me without a condom, but claims he didn't pre-ejaculate. I asked him to please put on contraception, and he did. But it doesn't take away the fact that he still penetrated me very little without a condom. I am very scared, and I would love for a supportive comment answering my doubt.
Thank you very much!

September 12, 2013 - 3:58pm
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