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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Hello Anonymous,
You are in a risky situation. If she is still menstruating, even if it is every few months, there is still a chance that she can become pregnant.

Try getting buying condoms that are one size smaller.

Maryann

July 4, 2012 - 4:39pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

is there something we can use to kill the sperm
I herd of a jell that is lube and sperm killer

she makes me so horny and wants me several times a day

i am using small condoms now

am i just so small

July 4, 2012 - 6:04pm
Guide

Hello Anonymous,

This 38 year old woman can still become pregnant unless she has had a total hysterectomy or has reached menopause, which is marked by not having a period for 12 months.

Pregnancy is possible because semen entered her vagina when the condom slipped off.

Maryann

July 3, 2012 - 4:48pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

she told me it would be fine a she only gets a period every few months and she is between now she makes great sex and I want it
how can i be sure the condom doesn't fall off again? her vagina is very big to the point she likes fore play to include me putting all my fingers and then my hand inside it will that cause it to get pulled off me that she is so big. she cant get enough sex and loves the way i give. lead me in the right direction

July 4, 2012 - 2:19am
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Anonymous

so i just had protected sex with a women 38 yrs old she said she cant get pregnant anymore, the condom slipped off whule i was coming out and after i cam in it. the cum was in the condom. she reached inside her vagina and took it out, it was hanging out the lips some can this get her pregnant at that age.

July 2, 2012 - 6:52pm
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Anonymous

hi there! I just had my period last may 24.. and my bf and I had sex on my 5th day, the first time he inserted his penis is he's wearing a condom then he ejaculated outside me. the 2nd time is I gave him a BJ so he removed his condom then he ejaculated outside me near my boobs and rested a bit, then he turned me over and wanted to put his penis like 1/4 of it, but I resisted coz I got scared. 2 weeks after that I did a home pregnancy test which resulted to negative. now its been 4 weeks already and im delayed on my period for a week already days... I had period may 24 then I was suppose to have it this june 24 im mostly 30-32 cycle. im so worried and scared right now. last week i have white discharrge and ive been eating a lot then this week is ive been feeling bloated and i have yellow discharge. then im having mild lower abdominal pains... please help me.. I dont know know what to doo right now.. :'( im so scaredd.... :'( I did a urine pregnancy test again on the 4th day that I missed my period in a clinic and its negative. its been a week already. should I check it again nextweek by home pregnancy test? is having my first sex will affect my menstruation since i'm irregular? thank you.. i need your answers! supper! you guys are helpful! :)

July 2, 2012 - 5:01am
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Anonymous

Ladies i got pregnant at 21 by just rubbing it in even him claiming he didnt cum and it looked like he didnt but just that rubing outside for les than 2 mins was enough

July 1, 2012 - 11:22pm
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Anonymous

Hello, I'm in a similar situation as most of the people in this thread. I fully understand the consequences of unprotected sex but me and my boyfriend made a stupid mistake. He put the head of his penis in for literally 3 seconds. I know it's unlikely for me to get pregnant but still possible. Because of this possibility, me and my boyfriend are extremely scared. I would like to go to planned parenthood to pick up the plan b pill. The problem is I cannot drive yet and have no way of getting there. What should I do? Thank you.

June 30, 2012 - 9:04pm

Hi. I tried to have sex for the first time with my boyfriend over a month ago. He only put the tip in and i'm not sure if there was pre-cum or not..We did this for about 5 minutes and he didn't get an inch in before I made him stop because it hurt. A week later I got my period. It was fairly normal clotty with a slower flow. Took a hpt. And got a negative result 2 weeks later. Took another a month later and got negative. Got my second period a little earlier and it was the same length and clotty with a slow flow. Now it's been 12 days after my period and my boobs and back are hurting on and off really badly and I feel sort of nauseous...Could I be pregnant or is this just nerves getting to me mentally. (I've been stressing about this for over a month since the incident occurred.)

June 30, 2012 - 1:58pm
Guide

Hello Anonymous,
If your boyfriend inserted his penis into your vagina, then he did "stick it in" you and you are no longer a virgin. Any time, there is genital to genital contact (penis inserted into the vagina), pregnancy is possible.
Please take a few minutes to view this slide show:
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts...

Maryann

June 27, 2012 - 5:00pm
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