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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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hei i am 20 years old.my boyfriend's penis's initial flow touched my vagina.is there any chance of pregnancy?
August 14, 2012 - 9:54amplease answer me.
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No you cannot be pregnant if he just inserted the tip, and yes if sperm is near the vagina they wil find there way inside, and that can lead to pregnancy
July 30, 2012 - 1:21pmThis Comment
Please help I have no one to talk to. I am 22 still a virgin. Me and my boyfriend messed around on July 8th which he rubbed genitals on genitals but did not stick it in I got very excited he didn't finish says there wasn't pre (I don't know if he saying this to make me feel better). I am irregular April I got period on 10, may on 22, June on 28. It is July 30 and still nothing. My boobs been hurting for two days like when period comes and this weekend Saturday I felt sick like when period come but nothing. All I do is cry. My boyfriend lives 1 and half hours away and it's hard not being able to talk to anyone I can afford a test or anything since I would have to ask someone for money. I know am stress and frustrated because I just want it to come down since am scared :'( I messed up an now am not ready for sex or a kid even tho I'm 22. I've learned my lesson I just wanna stop crying and get out of my room that's how depressed I am. Please someone help me with your kind words should I be that worried
July 30, 2012 - 8:09amThis Comment
plz help.. m 23 years old n my boyfriend ejagulated on my vagina 5 days aftr my periods. im late on my periods by 3 days. we dint have intercourse. am i pregnant?
July 30, 2012 - 6:18amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Your risk for pregnancy is very low, since you had just finished your period. The chance of conceiving is high during ovulation, which occurs about two weeks before the start of your period.
Maryann
July 30, 2012 - 4:38pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
It is possible to become pregnant. Time does not matter. If a sperm is released from the penis and enters the vagina, conception is possible.
Take a home pregnancy test. That is the way to know if you are pregnant or not.
Please visit the EmpowHER Sexual Health 101 page to learn how pregnancy happens and more.
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101
Maryann
July 10, 2012 - 4:51pmThis Comment
ty im not into sex but im reading this cuz i want my gf to be protected and fill her with knowledge about this subject actually we are young xD :]
October 22, 2012 - 9:12pmThis Comment
I was slept with my bf bt did nt had sex...he touched his penis down on my vaginal opening for 5 minutes or so...and that time was my menses beginning time...i have missed my periods for 1 and a half week and still it has not started...so can some1 plz tell me that can i bcum pregnant by js a 5 minutes touch? and ya let me tell u that i am virgin......plz help me i js wnt 2 kno z ths possible that m pregnant?
July 7, 2012 - 12:50pmThis Comment
will this spermacide take place of lube we us lots of lube and can i not use the condom if we use spermacide tight condoms make me not cum and looser ones fall off do we need to use spermacide every time, some times we keep going at sex and I cum 3 times in her
July 6, 2012 - 4:05amThis Comment
Hello male.looking,
You may be referring to spermicide. Spermicide is a substance containing chemicals that prevents pregnancy by stopping sperm from moving. Spermicides are inserted deep into the vagina shortly before intercourse. They block the cervix, so sperm cannot reach an egg. They keep sperm from moving, so they cannot join with an egg.
If you find that the condoms which you are currently using slip off frequently, maybe you need to try a different size or a different brand or style.
Maryann
July 5, 2012 - 4:43pmThis Comment